By Bill White on Sep 05, 2019 09:10 am
Addiction runs in families, but far less known is the fact that recovery also runs in families. Both of these phenomena have captured my attention in recent decades and been the focus of numerous articles.
Scientific studies
are unravelling the factors that combine to elevate risk of intergenerational
transmission of addiction and related problems. These mechanisms of
transmission include genetic and neurobiological influences, fetal alcohol
spectrum disorders, assortative mating (attraction of those exposed to parental
addition to individuals who share this family history), co-occurring
conditions, temperament, developmental and historical trauma, family dynamics
(e.g., parental/sibling modeling and collusion), early age of alcohol and other
drug (AOD) exposure, and disruption of family rituals. (See Here for review of
studies). Rigorous studies have yet to be conducted on the prevalence,
patterns, and mechanisms through which addiction recovery of one family member
increased the probability of other addicted family members also initiating a
recovery process. The purpose of the present blog is to offer some observations
on these issues drawn from decades of observation of families impacted by and
recovering from severe and persistent AOD problems. The following suggestions
should be viewed as hypotheses to be tested via scientific studies and more
expansive clinical observations.
*Innumerable patterns
of recovery transmission exist within families. Recovery transmission may occur
intergenerationally (e.g., parent to child) and Intragenerationally (between
siblings) and reach the extended family and social network. The recovery
influence may also be bi-directional, e.g., mother in recovery to addicted
child, child in recovery to addicted mother). Recovery transmission, like
addiction, can also skip generations.
*The probability of
recovery initiation of an addicted family member increases as the density of
recovery within an addiction-affected family network increase. The
contagiousness of recovery and the push and pull forces towards recovery
increase exponentially as other family members initiate recovery and as overall
health of the family system improves.
*The mechanisms of recovery
transmission within affected families include:
1) infusion into the family of
increased knowledge about addiction and recovery by the family member(s) in
recovery,
2) withdrawal of family support for
active addiction,
3) truth-telling about the addicted family member’s behavior and its effects on the family,
4) elicitation of hope,
5) recovery role modeling,
6) active engagement and recovery
guidance by family member(s) in recovery,
7) assertive linkage and
co-participation in recovery mutual aid and other recovery support
institutions,
8) assistance when needed in
accessing professional treatment,
9) post-treatment monitoring and
support, and
10) adjustments in family life to
accommodate recovery support activities for recovering members and family as a
whole.
These individual
mechanisms achieve heightened power when sequenced and combined over time.
- Recovery
of a family member can spark personal reevaluations of AOD consumption of other
family members, resulting in a potential decrease in AOD use and related risk
behaviors, even among family members without a substance use disorder. This may
constitute a hidden benefit of recovery in lowering addiction-related costs to
community and society.
- The
recovery contagion effect on other family members exists even when the
recovering family member isolated themselves from the family to protect his or
her own recovery stability. The family’s knowledge of the reality of his or her
continued recovery and its effects on their health and functioning exerts
pressure towards recovery even in absence of direct contact.
- One
of the most complicated forms of recovery contagion is between intimate
partners who both experience AOD problems. The recovery of one partner
destabilizes the relationship and increases the probability of recovery
initiation of the other; addiction recurrence in one partner increases the
recurrence risk in the other partner. Recovery stability is greatest when each
partner established their own recovery program in tandem with activities to
support “couple recovery.”
- Where
conflict exists between a family member in recovery and a family member in
active addiction (e.g., a father in recovery and an actively addicted son), the
conflict can serve as an obstacle to recovery initiation of the addicted family
member. Though recovery initiation may be slowed, recovery prognosis is still
increased, and the conflicted relationship is often reconciled when both
parties are in recovery. When not reconciled, conflict can continue to be played
out via different pathways of recovery.
It is rare to escape injury to family within the addiction experience. Such injuries increase progressively within families in which multiple people are experiencing AOD-related problems. For those of us who find ourselves in such circumstances, the greatest gift we can offer our family is our own recovery.
Related Papers
of Potential Interest
Evans, A. C., Lamb,
R., & White, W. L. (2014). Promoting intergenerational resilience and
recovery: Policy, clinical, and recovery support strategies to alter the
intergenerational transmission of alcohol, drug, and related problems.
Philadelphia: Department of Behavioral Health and Intellectual disAbility
Services. Posted at http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/pr/2014-Breaking-Intergenerational-Cycles-of-Addiction.pdf
Navarra, R. &
White, W. (2014) Couple recovery. Posted at http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/blog/2018/03/couple-recovery-robert-navarra-psyd-lmft-mac-and-bill-white.html
White, W. & Savage,
B. (2003) All in the Family: Addiction, recovery, advocacy. Posted at http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/pr/2005AllintheFamily.pdf
White, W. (2014)
Addiction recovery and intergenerational resilience Posted at http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/blog/2014/07/addiction-recovery-and-intergenerational-resilience.html
White, W. (2017).
Family recovery 101. Posted at http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/blog/2017/12/family-recovery-101.html
White, W.
Addiction/Recovery as a family tradition. Posted at http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/blog/2017/12/family-recovery-101.html
White, W. (2015) All
in the family: Recovery resource review. http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/blog/2015/11/all-in-the-family-recovery-resource-review.html
White, W. L. & Chaney, R. A. (2008). Intergenerational patterns of resistance and recovery within families with histories of alcohol and other drug problems: What we need to know. Posted at http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/pr/2012-Intergenerational-Resilience-26-Recovery.pdf
White, W. L. & White. A. M. (2011). Tips for recovering parents wishing to break intergenerational cycles of addiction. Posted at: http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/pr/Tips-for-Recovering-Parents.pdf
About the author:
Bill White is a
preeminent researcher on addiction and recovery. He received a Lifetime
Achievement Award from the Faces and Voices of Recovery in 2015. William L.
White is an Emeritus Senior Research Consultant at Chestnut Health Systems /
Lighthouse Institute and past chair of the board of Recovery Communities
United. Bill has a master’s degree in Addiction Studies and has worked full
time in the addictions field since 1969 as a streetworker, counselor, clinical
director, researcher and well-traveled trainer and consultant. He has authored
or co-authored more than 400 articles, monographs, research reports and book
chapters and 20 books. His book, Slaying the Dragon – The History of Addiction
Treatment and Recovery in America, received the McGovern Family Foundation
Award for the best book on addiction recovery. Bill was featured in the Bill
Moyers’ PBS special “Close to Home: Addiction in America” and Showtime’s
documentary “Smoking, Drinking and Drugging in the 20th Century.” Bill’s
sustained contributions to the field have been acknowledged by awards from the
National Association of Addiction Treatment Providers, the National Council on
Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, NAADAC: The Association of Addiction
Professionals, the American Society of Addiction Medicine, and the Native
American Wellbriety Movement. Bill’s widely read papers on recovery advocacy
have been published by the Johnson Institute in a book entitled Let’s Go Make
Some History: Chronicles of the New Addiction Recovery Advocacy Movement.
His web site is: http://www.williamwhitepapers.com/